Learning Paths
Different starting points support different rhythms of learning. Each path offers a way to engage with SONIagogy based on where you are and how you prefer to learn.
Training the gap –
8-Week Course (group) with 8 Live calls
All session are done online via zoom or Google meetings
Before You Can Change Your Reactions, You Have to Learn to Recognize Them.
$276.00
8 weeks ·
Have you ever walked away from an argument wondering how the hell it got so out of control? You promised yourself you wouldn’t react that way again, but the next time you felt criticized, misunderstood, or dismissed, there you were, doing the same thing.
Here’s the thing. You can’t change a pattern you don’t recognize while it’s happening.
Training the Gap is an eight-week introduction to Soniagogy that teaches you to notice what’s happening in your body and mind, recognize your protective responses, and begin developing the awareness needed to make different choices.
This is where you begin training SONI rather than allowing years of practiced reactions to keep running the show.
What we’ll explore during those eight weeks
Week 1 — Meet SONI
Understand how your subconscious learns from experience, develops protective responses, and influences your everyday relationships.
Week 2 — Awareness: What’s Happening Inside You?
Recognize physical signals such as a tightening chest, hot face, dry mouth, shallow breathing, or clenched jaw before reactions escalate.
Week 3 — The Gap Between Trigger and Response
Begin noticing the moment between what someone says or does and what your mind decides it means.
Week 4 — Identity Protection and the Four D’s
Recognize defending, denying, deflecting, and dismissing—including when you’re the one doing them.
Week 5 — Your Emotional Patterns
Explore how old experiences, expectations, interpretations, and fears influence your reactions today.
Week 6 — Outward Awareness vs. Inward Awareness
Learn to observe your own tone, expressions, interruptions, and thoughts instead of focusing exclusively on another person’s behavior.
Week 7 — Practicing the Pause
Introduce deliberate practices for staying present with discomfort, listening, and noticing the urge to react before acting on it.
Week 8 — Bringing Awareness Into Everyday Life
Apply what you’ve learned at home, at work, and in difficult conversations. Review your patterns and prepare for deeper practice in Pathfinder.
What students are working toward
By the end of eight weeks, the goal isn’t to have eliminated every defensive reaction or solved every relationship problem.
It’s to begin recognizing yourself in situations where you previously only saw the other person.
To hear your tone changing. To notice the tension building in your chest. To catch yourself preparing a defense before someone has finished speaking.
And perhaps most importantly, to begin understanding that you don’t have to respond to every uncomfortable feeling the way you’ve practiced responding for years.
You will receive 8 live calls with a digital work book (you print out)
please contact to Soniagogy before purchasing
Single payment of $276.00
Pathfinder
Pathfinder Program (Live Weekly Guided Training via zoom)
Who it’s for:
Pathfinder is for those ready to actively retrain subconscious patterns and nervous system responses. You understand your patterns, but they still run automatically in stress, relationships, or decision-making.
You are ready to move from awareness into structured integration.
What this stage offers:
This is deep integration and guided retraining. Using Mindscaping tools, you practice regulation, repetition, emotional recalibration, and identity-level shifts over time so change becomes embodied, not intellectual.
Pathfinder is not built on breakthroughs.
It is built on repetition, structure, and accountability.
You are supported through:
• Weekly live Zoom training sessions
• Structured integration exercises
• Ongoing guidance inside a private Pathfinder Facebook group
The group environment allows you to share insights, ask questions, and receive reinforcement between sessions. You are not working in isolation.
The structure provides rhythm.
The group provides accountability.
The process builds stability.
Format & Length:
Live Zoom-based guided training
Weekly group sessions
Private Pathfinder Facebook community
Duration: 18 months
$5,127.00- 1 time payment Taxes and fees
or
$294.00 per month for 18 months –
This is a full transformation arc, not a short program.
If you are ready for structured, long-term integration in a guided environment, Pathfinder is the next step.
Veterans Scholarship Access…
For veterans, the Pathfinder Program is free.
You already paid.
You paid with your time, your service, your body, your mind, your family, and parts of your life most people will never fully understand.
As a former Marine, I see you.
I celebrate you.
And I believe you deserve support as you continue healing, rebuilding, and finding your way back to yourself.
If you are a veteran and you are struggling financially, this program is available to you at no cost.
If you are a veteran and you can afford to pay, please do so. Your payment helps keep this door open for another veteran who may need support but cannot afford it right now.
If you are not joining the program but would like to help more veterans receive the care, training, and community they deserve, please use the donate button.
Your donation helps give another veteran a chance to heal, train, and remember who they are beyond survival.
Veterans Pathfinder space is available but it is limited –
We will need to verify proof – Military ID & DD214
To apply as a veteran, please contact us directly at Chuy@soniagogy.com
Pathfinder – Obsidian
(1 on 1 weekly sessions via zoom)
Pathfinder Obsidian is reserved for individuals ready to work at a deeper level.
You are not looking for more information.
You are ready to confront the patterns that continue to shape your decisions, relationships, and emotional responses.
This is focused, structured work.
In this private container, we work directly with shadow patterns, attachment wounds, nervous system conditioning, and identity-level loops in real time. We slow reactions down. We examine them without avoidance. We retrain them with intention.
This space is fully dedicated to your growth.
The pacing reflects your nervous system.
The work remains focused, direct, and deeply intentional.
Every session is focused entirely on you.
This is a structured 18-month commitment arc designed to retrain subconscious patterns at the level they were formed. Change here is not rushed. It is built.
Format & Length:
Private 1 on 1 Zoom sessions
Weekly live training
Duration: 18 months
Grand Opening Special
$87. 00 per session
or $ 348.00 per month x 18 months
Payment plans are available and are discussed privately after initial conversation.
Availability is limited
If you know you are ready for focused, private work at a deeper level, contact directly to discuss availability.
Navigator
Navigator Program
Who it’s for:
Navigator is for Pathfinders who feel called to guide others through this work in leadership, relational, teaching, or facilitation roles.
Status:
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